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Nankhatai's avatar

Maybe the wrong love isn't wrong, maybe it is just a preparatory phase so that we value the right person when they come in our life 💕

Mizzle !'s avatar

Exactly!! sometimes hurt is just preparation..

bloom🌸's avatar

I dreamnt of my first love to be the last .. Ik i am delusional ...!

Mizzle !'s avatar

Delulu is definitely not a solulu…😅

AsukaHotaru's avatar

Mizzle… you really just held up a mirror to every wrong love we thought was destiny.

That bit about confusing butterflies with warning signs? I had to laugh and wince at the same time. And writing someone’s redemption arc before they even ask for it — yeah, called out, thank you.

But the way you end it… the shift from chaos to safety, from spark to peace — that felt like someone handing the heart its real instruction manual.

Soft. Clear. True.

Mizzle !'s avatar

Thank you so much Asukaaa!! I’m glad you likes it.. 🤍

Parth's avatar

Why don't we directly call them angels !

Mizzle !'s avatar

But angels don’t hurt us 💔

Parth's avatar

They surely give us lessons, after all they have a message to pass on us!

Madonna's avatar

Maybe the wrong love isn't wrong because it's meant to teach us what true love really looks like.

Mizzle !'s avatar

Yesss!!! 💯🤍

War Within's avatar

I love the way you put it, a mistake is not failure, it leads us to the right way. Which got me thinking maybe pain is when we look at one point instead of seeing the full picture?

Mizzle !'s avatar

Yeahh.. I agree. When we zoom out, even pain starts to look like part of the path, not the end of it… Thank you so much for reading!! 🤍

Ella 🪐🌸💫's avatar

‘They show us our boundaries

by crossing them.

They teach us our worth

by failing to see it.’

This is such a beautiful perspective!! I agree, sometimes we meet the wrong people first, so they can teach us how to recognise the right people. I loved this! 🤍

Mizzle !'s avatar

Yes Absolutely, it’s like life uses the wrong people as mirrors to show us what we truly deserve.. thank you so much for reading!! 🤍🌷

Scarlett's avatar

I can't find the right words to describe how deeply this resonates with me, and how it directly addresses the worries that have been crossing my mind. Thank you, this is so touching!

Mizzle !'s avatar

Thank you so much for reading!! I really appreciate it. And I hope you find the right person soon (if you haven’t already) 🤍

Ingrid Dy's avatar

Beautifully written bestie ❤️

Mizzle !'s avatar

Thank you so much!! 🤍

Daniela Grothe's avatar

I was there, too, misreading some first butterflies as a debugger setting wrong breakpoints in my timetable. Feeling Hollywood and the radio showing sunshine while I was just meant to stay in the rain.

Or as an unfixable bug that still hummed better than my past… However, I was not head first all-in, rather tasting an unnoticed sip of my inner feelings; never jumping into an empty pool with jeans on.

Mizzle !'s avatar

Yess.. We’ve all done trial-and-error with our hearts.🤍

Rishi  ☠︎︎'s avatar

if it didn't last, it wasn't "love"